We can find freedom and love of self through forgiveness. Forgiveness is never about the other person. Why? Forgiveness is about releasing blocks including resentments and ways we disempower ourselves.
What is a betrayal? What is the frame we can put around this experience or word? Are we going to tell the story of how I was abused in multiple experiences? Or can I tell a hero’s journey of how I transformed my circumstances?
Louise Hay, the founder of Hay House, lived with her mother and step-father who physically, emotionally, and sexually abused her. At the age of 15 she ran away from home. She embraced any man who showed her kindness and soon became pregnant. The child was given up for adoption. Later she developed cancer. But because she began to study spiritual principles she began to see patterns in her life of her not loving herself and lacking self-esteem. She knew she had to change and began the journey not only of ridding her body of toxins and toxic food but also of ridding herself of toxic resentment. She did forgiveness healing and much more with a healer. She envisioned the person she resented as a small boy who was also abused.
What are some of the reasons we hold onto not forgiving? We see ourselves as the object of someone else’s attack. Forgiveness can be seen as an internal reorientation to transform your relationship with yourself. Who I am should not be based on how I am received or perceive my acceptance by others ( who often do not accept themselves). Unforgiveness is cloaked in layers of judgment. People usually have an unconscious relationship with God… God’s will is fine for them until it becomes inconvenient. I am the source of my own fulfillment. Is the universe or God ever against you?
In unforgiveness, we feel betrayed, we feel the need to judge ourselves or others with ill intentions or just not caring, we feel vulnerable, we do not trust, attachment to grief, attachment to being a victim, suffering gives me value, I need to feel superior to or better than, I/ other am not worthy of forgiveness, I feel powerless, I feel separate from others, I am angry the other offended me. Release these subconscious beliefs. Can you see how unforgiveness limits you and your potential?
Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does change the present and it absolutely transforms your future. Jack Boland a Unity minister from Southfield Michigan, loathed his former brother-in-law. When told others what this guy had done to him, they all agreed the brother-in-law was a real jerk. Others supported him in his feeling like a victim. Jack got tired of hearing others validate how horrible he had been treated. Jack decided that this story was holding him back. Jack wanted to live in harmony with the principles of abundance and happiness. He went to work on forgiving. He began to send thoughts of love to him, but this did not work. But he noticed when he thought of his son as a little boy, he felt much love. So Jack would interject the thought of the brother in law when he was thinking of great love for his son. He was just trying to interject neutral feelings for the brother in law in order to get the toxic feelings out of his mind. When he felt resentment and betrayal, Jack was holding onto energy that prevented him from creating dreams for himself.
As Jack practiced seeing the brother in law when he thought of his son, he actually began seeing him as a little boy like his son. This exercise took months. Jack knew the healing was complete when one day he was stopped at a traffic light. A brand new Cadillac pulled up right next to him; he admired the car; then he noticed that his brother-in-law was driving it. What Jack felt was gladness for him. He just felt that without thinking. Jack was amazed at his response and knew that the brother-in-law did not have any control over his life. Jack was free.
The word Namaste means The divine light in me honors/sees the divine light in you. We are all connected. Forgiveness moves us from separation into connection. We become more powerful because we take responsibility for how we react/act. We are here either expressing love or calling for love no matter how charged the situation may seem. We never know the whole story behind someone else’s actions. If someone seems rude to you, their mindset may be stressed by circumstances you have no awareness of. Bless them.
Forgiveness is continuous, a way of being. The Dalai Lama says it is easy to be kind and compassionate with friends. He calls the Chinese Government his sacred friend. Rather than blaming his sacred friend or resenting him, he sees the sacred friend as a transformative agent who has helped him grow a big heart and much love.
Loving-kindness Meditation. This practice is used in the Buddhist community. May I be truly happy, May I live in peace, May I live in Love, May I know the power of forgiveness.
Then say the same for a member of your family whom you deeply love: May _____ be truly happy, May they live in Peace. May they live in love. May they know the power of forgiveness.
Now say the same prayer for someone with whom you have difficulty with. May you be free of suffering; may you have joy and happiness.
Check out the Ho’o Pono Pono story. A Hawaiian therapist healed an entire ward of criminally insane patients without ever meeting any of them or spending a moment in the same room. The therapist, Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len healed them by healing himself. It was a miracle. Do you want miracles? Practice forgiveness.
Agnes Loughlin has a background as a nurse, nurse practitioner. Now she supports others to connect more to the joy in their life. She is certified as a Theta Healer, The Emotion Code, Potentiate Your DNA Facilitator, Higher Brain Living Facilitator, Life Mastery Institute Transformational teacher. She teaches at the Infinity Foundation, Radiant Health & Spirit, and Unity in Chicago.
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What is Potentiation? Potentiate Your DNA
Sound Healing for the Chakras
This energy shifting paradigm was started by American Sol Luckman who wrote the books Conscious Healing (2006,2010)and Potentiate Your DNA published in 2011.
Potentiation Electromagnetic re-patterning is the first of 4 integrated DNA activations also called the Regenetics Method. These are received on a specific timeline sequence and are your choice to receive. The Potentiation session employs specific sound and light codes produced vocally and mentally—to stimulate self healing and transformational potential in DNA. The process resets your Bioenergy fields which have been distorted by toxins and/or trauma. The Potentiation session lasts about 30 minutes, which can be done in person and is often done remotely.
“This is revolutionary healing science that’s expanding the boundaries of being.” NEXUS NEW TIMES
Three percent of DNA is known scientifically to assemble our physical bodies. Potential DNA or the other 97 % is in constant meta-genetic interface with our bioenergy blueprint. This 97 percent of DNA is in constant dialogue with our bioenergy blueprint or life-wave to determine which instructions for healing and evolving our bodies are passed on by potential DNA to the rest of DNA for activation.
The science of wave-genetics has demonstrated , correctly applied, human language can be employed to access, reset, and even transform our bioenergy blueprint(physical body).
During healing and transformation of a species through DNA activation, transposons or “jumping DNA “ are instructed by potential DNA to shift their chromosomal positions –in small numbers when it comes to healing, but by the thousands during evolutionary transformation. The American Barbara McClintock was awarded the Nobel Prize in physiology and medicine for this discovery of jumping DNA.
Regarding evolutionary transformation, such a massive molecular rearrangement fundamentally alters genes and creates radically new protein coding sequences that produce distinct and unprecedented creatures. The end result is a spontaneous evolution—which happens neither gradually nor adaptively, but as a veritable metamorphosis within a single lifetime—of an existing species into a new one. This process explains why no “transitional “ fossils can be found for so many species. This process is called meta-genetics demonstrates that evolution is driven by consciousness. Individually and collectively, there is only conscious evolution—or none at all. And such conscious evolution, personally and universally, occurs by way of DNA activation.
The widely discussed Flynn Effect shows dramatic increases in human IQ over recent years that, having to do with abstract or symbolic thinking, simply cannot be explained by better education or improved technology.
DNA Potentiation also seals the fragmentary body. In the usual human bioenergy blueprint there are nine bioenergy fields or chakras and a Fragmentary body or a energetic disruption in the second chakra. In DNA Potentiation, after 5months the ninth chakra descends like a pancake and merges with the 2nd chakra. This seals the Fragmentary Body, allowing for the free flow of bioenergy throughout the body. This sets the stage for dramatic healing.
The actual session is done in 30 minutes and can be done remotely, meaning you do not need to be physically present in person. The session involves a specific tuning fork and vowel chanting which are in the book Potentiate your DNA. There is a separate set of vowels for distance healing. The process takes 9 months to complete. The Fragmentary Body is sealed at the 5th month.
Benefits of Potentiation
Benefits reported by those receiving Potentiation are both subtle and dramatic and span both body, mind, spirit continuums.
The most common reported benefits include:
Allergy Elimination, Enhanced Energy, Clearer Skin
Thicker Hair, Better Digestion, Sharper Thinking, Healthier Relationships
Deeper Sleep, Greater Abundance, Straighter Posture, Parasite Cleansing
Healthier Urination, Pain Relief, Regular Stools, Physical Strengthening
Stronger Immunity , Improved Respiration, Clearer Boundaries, Thicker Hair, Fewer Migraines
Yuen Chinese Energetics, developed by Dr. Kam Yuen, DC, is at the cutting edge of 21st century healing arts. The techniques do not require physical contact and can be done on the phone or through distance healing. The methods offer instant or significant relief from chronic back pain, arthritis, and other issues without the use of drugs, surgery, or special supplements.
Yuen Chinese Energetics focuses on the underlying causes of energy weaknesses in the body detected through muscle testing. We are spiritual beings and we heal on many different levels of consciousness. Weaknesses can be on many different levels including: physical, mental, emotional, psychic, spiritual, and psychological. The Yuen Method blends anatomy, physiology, applied kinesiology, and quantum physics.
Yuen Chinese Energetics sees the body as a computer whose switches are either on or off, strong or weak. Pain indicates that something is unbalanced in the flow of energy in your body. Yuen checks out the many different levels of our being to make sure that all is in harmony so that pain is released through strengthening the weaknesses. It is important to bring the subconscious beliefs and energies into harmony with the conscious mind.
My clients have seen great shifts in pain and also in how they view their lives. Yuen Chinese Energetics provides a quantum leap forward in your healing results because it addresses so many different levels of healing. Physical pain is often mistaken for musculo-skeletal issues when it often is referred there from other parts of the body, your mind, or emotions. Yuen eliminates the causes of pain, so your body heals and returns to balance. Yuen does not treat symptoms but the actual causes of imbalance and pain in your body.